February is often called the month of love. We celebrate Valentine’s Day and images of young couples in love spring from every newspaper, TV and store front. Instead of romantic love, I would like to put the spotlight on good friendships and the love that takes the form of companionship and mutual care. At Meadowlark Hills, friendships are a precious part of our culture. Groups exist here that facilitate friendships, creating a place for individuals to share ideas about a topic or pieces of who they are. I think of the Story Writing Group or the Ladies Pool Hour as two examples of people who gather to exchange stories and laughter. The Ambassador Club, led by Amanda Rall, is another way to learn what our community needs, how you can contribute and make friends along the way.

For the most part, the friendships that thrive at Meadowlark Hills are not organized or seen. There are so many people here who do small, seemingly insignificant things for each other that make an enormous difference. Giving someone a ride to the store or doctor, bringing the newspaper inside, inviting a friend to an event or to share a cup of coffee, and being a compassionate listener are only a few of the many ways people can care for each other.

Friendships are often nurtured through regular dates, for lunch or to play card games, and consistent communication. Schedules are wonderful ways to ensure you receive your regular dose of companionship, stress relief and laughter. This also creates a network of caring people who are familiar with your daily routine and can be a support system in times of need.

As life goes on, we experience loss, including the loss of our dear friends. Bonds of friendship are important and grieving during a loss is normal. I propose that during this month of love that we make room for brotherly and sisterly love. May the friendships that have shaped us, brought us comfort and laughter now and in the past be remembered and celebrated for the treasures they are!