It’s easy to think of all the things that a person loses as they age. Independence, physical abilities, even memories and cognition in some cases. The loss of these things isn’t to be taken lightly, and is difficult not only on the person losing them but also on those around them. However, something that I have come to realize since working at Meadowlark Hills is how many things are gained over the years that truly make aging worth it.

Working in a household at Meadowlark Hills means that I am fortunate enough to come to work every day to be with a wonderful group of residents and caregivers. The perspective this provides is something that I really value, because it has shown me all the positive things that I can hope to achieve when I reach the age of these residents. For example, one of the biggest surprises that I found when I began working in a household is how truly funny the people that live here are. I would estimate that not even an hour goes by in between bouts of laughter shared with the residents. I’m not sure whether laughter really is the best medicine, but it really does connect us all and pave the way for deeper friendships.

An obvious attribute that develops with age is knowledge. This makes sense, because it’s hard to be around for so many years without soaking up quite a bit of information about the world. However, the characteristic that is less guaranteed but still something that I see here at Meadowlark Hills is wisdom. Quite often I fall into the trap set for people my age of thinking that I know everything about the world around me, or at least almost everything. It’s becoming clear to me after being around such remarkable and intelligent people here that it isn’t necessarily about the knowledge that you have, but what you do (or don’t do) with it that matters. I’ve learned the value in not worrying about being right all the time, and to focus more on doing the right thing for that particular moment.

The most valuable thing that I’ve seen gained by aging is relationships. This is an asset that cannot be overestimated, because the need to connect with others is one of the most fundamental aspects to human beings. I’m incredibly grateful for the relationships I’ve been able to build with many of the people that live and work at Meadowlark Hills, and I’m also grateful for the opportunity to see how these bonds strengthen over time in the lives of the residents and staff members. It’s clear that those relationships that have stood the test of time are the most precious because they are earned rather than handed out to everyone, and have been able to develop into something truly meaningful.

Everyone has a job that can be tough and trying at times and mind is no exception, but I feel very fortunate to have one that continuously provides me with a better perspective on life and getting older. Working at Meadowlark Hills is nothing short of an honor because of the amazing people that live here and because of the experiences I get to witness first-hand that make me look forward to getting older and gaining so much.